What makes something/someone sexy?
Defining sexy is like trying to hold a handful of jello. It’s one of those I know it when I see it kinds of things. Trying to explain sexy, or trying hard to be sexy decreases the sexiness component exponentially.
So without comment, I’ll show you some sexy, not-sexy things.
Sexy.
Not sexy song.
Sexy.
There’s a particular character trait I find unabashedly sexy. I’m attracted to people who possess this quality. Sexiness in a person (for me, anyway) has absolutely nothing to do with appearance and absolutely everything to do with being comfortable in one’s own skin.
Wanna hear the sexiest name I’ve heard in a while? This name even rivals the grandma/stripper monikers I wrote about in a previous post.
Ready?
Amber Smoke. She’s a real person. And I KNOW her!

Amber is one of our visiting artists featured in Amarillo Opera’s Threepenny Opera this weekend. She exemplifies being comfortable in your own skin and I love her for it!
In fact, I think each of our visiting artists brings his own unique and oh-so-sexy style to our production.

What does the term sexy mean to you? I’d love to hear. Keep it clean for KK (my granny-name)!
Let’s-stay-together love to all.
fun post! and i agree- sexy has less to do with looks and more to do with attitude. to me, sexy is confidence. a man with an edge, some grit. someone who is smart and unapologetic about it. and has a sense of humor but also thoughtful. hmmmm, i think i just described my husband?! i picked a good one, i think. 😉